The result? Most men don't approach women, causing both men and women to go without. They do this because every time (it seems) they approach a woman at random, it gets a negative result. However, it's actually not every time, it's just most times because they can’t separate the small group of women who want them from the large group of women who don’t. A few men are persistent. They approach a lot of women, and surge ahead with any one woman until she forces him to stop in some way. This is very frightening for women because they are extremely weak in all ways compared to a man. Her ability to make him stop is based almost solely on his consent or another man coming to her aid.
Also, there is a big problem in that objective worth doesn't mean anything anymore. A large, muscular, svelte, handsome, intelligent man with tons of money naturally assumes most women will be attracted to him. He approaches a woman he wants and is shut down. He naturally assumes this is a test of the steel content of his balls and turns it up a notch... causing a bad situation. He can't believe the small pool of women he actually has to choose from and the randomness of it all. I mean, if Pamela Anderson rolled up on you while you were working the register at Burger King and started going oooooohhhh, your soooo hot, let's go out somewhere tonight, would you be interested or would you assume she was a serial killer and go running for the manager. Too many girls do the latter, in this situation. Something is wrong with them.
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The Advantage the Big City Has Over the Small Town
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You just don’t have that luxury in a small town. Everyone
will rapidly know you. If you fail to jump on a hot prospect in that
situation….1) she won’t be a hot prospect later on, 2) new prospects
don’t show up and all the other women will have already permanently put
you in the non-fuckable category, and 3) people will think you are a
weak dateless loser for not being able to get some from your hot
prospect and avoid you.This is probably the only saving grace living in the city has and most men don’t understand it at all. They’re all going out and spending a lot of money (and wasting a lot of time) going to the dance clubs. While, all the women who want to actually have sex are out at the bars.
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Women go to Clubs to be Seen and Cause Trouble
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Women go to clubs to be seen and cause trouble. The last thing on their minds is meeting men. There is no point. However, in many clubs that trouble takes the form of doing drugs so the criminal element, of course, moves in. With no chance of getting laid, do you really want to be in that environment? The whole scene is pathetic.
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No Cover Charge for the Ladies
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The very fact that women get in free in a particular place, makes that place worthless for getting laid. This is the difference between neighborhood bars and a nightclub.
Women get way, waaaaayyyy too many points in a nightclub. They don’t
need to fuck any of the guys there because they’ve already gotten what
they came there to get (the adoration and feeling of being attractive and valuable
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felt up on the dance floor. She’s going home alone at the end of the
night, especially if they are in packs (90% of the time). Also, the club
is where all the competition is and unless you look like Fabio, this is
not a situation you want. However, a woman in a bar is a different
story. She’s either there to socialize with people she knows or to be
picked up. It’s easy to tell because she will be alone. At most, she
will have one (and only one) girlfriend with her.Never, never, NEVER go to a nightclub and never pay a cover (ie, never go to a place where they want to charge men for access to women….because that access is a deception). Instead, go to a neighborhood pub with no cover. Either hang out there because you just feel like it or go to a place where there are a lot of free bars. Stay only long enough to make sure there are viable prospects. Walk around. Try to make eye contact with each woman you are possibly interested in. The ones you have a shot with will make extended eye contact (if they smile, you’re in…..mwahaha). The other 99% will avoid your gaze or even be hostile. Don’t even order a beer if there are no prospects. Fuck em and move on. Why waste your money, but more importantly your time?
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Singles Events .
You have to be really careful at any “singles” event. Just like the
women at the clubs (supposedly a place to meet others interested in
finding a partner), these women aren’t there to meet a man. They are
there to have their ego stroked. Sure, occasionally they will “binge”
and go home with some random guy. But, for the most part, no guy will
do. They will rationalize this in various ways that boil down to there
are no good guys here (so what if they are all 6′s and 7′s and she is a
4). But the problem is her. The last thing she is interested in, is
discovering if any of the guys she is attracted to (and she is attracted
to a significant number) is compatible with her. Although she is
attracted to a number of them (many times, you included), none of you
has any more chance with her than some random chick you pass on the
street. Unlike women you pass on the street, however, a huge number of
the girls at the singles events are really into leading you on. What
fun!
The other sad thing is that few women have interests until they get old, fat and married (which is exactly the type of woman you will meet at any interest you have). The exception to that is the gym. However, an increasing number of women are going to women’s only gyms.
In my experience, there are only two places where you meet lots of women. The first is in college classes, particularly college classes designed for people who are a waste of space…..art classes, acting classes, intro psychology classes, pop culture classes etc. The second is via a network of friends. You should always be on the lookout to add male and female friends to your network because they bring prospective women into your sphere of influence. However, it’s important to be selective with the type of person it is. If you have a buddy who is a drug-using criminal, guess what type of women he will bring into your sphere of influence. She has the same chance of being attracted to you as everyone else…..but you don’t want her lol.
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Women Go to Singles Events to be Seen, Not to Pick Up Men
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Just like going out to a nightclub, women go to singles events to be seen, not to pick up men. Going out in packs, they have no intention of going home with anyone. Any number they give you will be fake….etc. Unless you look like Brad Pitt or are a celebrity or obviously have more money than God, you can forget about it. This contrasts very heavily with going out to a bar, during normal hours (9pm to midnight, just about), to scope and hangout, maybe have a beer and watch the game. Any woman there, who is alone, is looking to go home with a man. That goes double if it’s an airport bar or the bar is connected to a hotel. However, be warned that those girls are usually married. Don’t bring it up (usually you do, but not here). Bars where business people hang out after seminars or while on business trips are where married people go to cheat on their spouses. It’s their turf. Overwhelmingly, she is going to want you to get lost afterwards.
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There is No Pattern to Women's Attraction
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There absolutely is no pattern whatsoever to a woman’s attraction. Or
rather, just like men, they are attracted to large numbers of the
opposite sex, with a rather low standard of beauty. But, unlike men,
they suppress that attraction (women are sick). They don’t do that in other cultures
which is why their behavior differs, I think. There is no pattern, AT
ALL, to when a woman switches off her suppression of attraction. But,
when she does, she rationalizes it after the fact. Often, she switches
it off because she has starved herself for affection for so long that
she "binges"…..goes out, gets drunk, and picks up some random guy. Not only that, but women are total cowards. Even if they are drooling over some guy, they won’t even hint at it unless the guy elicits it somehow.There are four exceptions to this. The first is if a guy is extremely provocative, with model good looks. Often, his presence will elicit a binge in a woman. Often it won’t and he will be treated like a dog, even though he is literally, on the top of the food chain. The second is the rich guy. Women will allow themselves (or, mostly pretend to allow) themselves to become attracted to a rich guy, to get their hands on his money. The third is someone who is famous. Even a moderate amount of fame will have large numbers of women drooling over a guy. The last, is the worst of all…..evil. Large numbers of women go through periods where they are VERY attracted to evil. Some women are like this all the time. Literally, nothing else matters about the guy…looks, station, and basic hygiene. You could (and many are) 200 pounds overweight, smell BAD, have missing teeth and beat women every chance you get, and you will be drowning in pussy from this phenomena, as long as you are an ex-con, with a drug problem. This phenomenon is probably the single biggest threat to our way of life and the general happiness and well being of everyone. It is also an extremely good reason for strict, “three strikes your out” laws. Not only don’t we want these scum on the street, but, left to their own devices, they can and do destroy large segments of our population….getting girls hooked on drugs, they are prime spreaders of AIDS and other STD’s in our social circles, destroying families, illegitimate births, etc. Permanent imprisonment is a rational, reasonable and just solution to this problem.
Anyway, my point is this. It is impossible to increase the number of women who are interested in you by increasing your “attractiveness”. You can lose weight, buff up your body, get better clothes, better style, whatever, and you may change slightly the quality of women who are interested in you, but not the number. You can also change your behavior, but that only changes who specifically reacts to you. You can be nice, or you can be playfully arrogant, or you can be a total shitheel. You can sharpen your technique or get better at the “game”. But, it’s all pointless. It may change who, but not how many. Nothing will allow you to pick and choose who, specifically, will respond.
The problem isn’t attraction. The problem isn’t with us. The PROBLEM is the neurotic behavior of women. You can’t change them. But, once you understand the situation, you can change the way you approach the problem to become more effective.
Binge and Purge
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99%……99% is the percentage of women who will say no if you approach them at random. They use the binge and purge method of dating. They have a fantasy in their head. The fantasy is different for every girl but isn’t too much in line with what men are typically like. No man who doesn’t match the fantasy is welcome. Time passes and a woman gets desperate for a man and “binges”, taking anyone. Being unhappy with just anyone, she eventually “purges” him, and goes back waiting for her fantasy (which doesn’t exist).
Your chances of catching a woman who is binging is maybe one in ten. If you woo her correctly, she will go for you. The chances of meeting a woman who you match her fantasy is about 1 in a hundred (completely random).
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Finding and Approaching Women
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You can’t ask a woman for anything because it gives her too many points. You need to use body language and only approach the ones that matter. And you can’t be direct about it.
catch her gaze again and see if she locks gazes with you. Smile and nod
to her if she does. If you feel aggressive, wink. If she holds your gaze
this second time for an extended period of time and/or starts
clustering body language signals of interest (read the book, Body
Language by R Don Steele), that is one of the 1% of random women that
will have sex with you right now, if you approach her correctly. It’s
extremely reliable.
Approaching correctly means that you come near her tangentially. You
seem like you are actually doing something else. For example: You see
one of these women in the mall. Don’t go right up to her. Go near her
and pretend to shop or look at something interesting. You strike up a
conversation by noticing something about her and commenting on it and
then asking a question. For example: "That’s a very nice sweater you are
wearing. What’s the story behind it? Blah, blah, blah." Understand that
women are completely self-involved.
So shut your yap and look like you are paying attention and listen for
cues for other getting to know you type questions. Tell her almost
nothing about yourself other than your name and give her every
opportunity to tell you even the most inane blather about herself.
She’ll think you are the most brilliant, interesting man on the planet.
When you can’t take this anymore, interupt her with some version of, "I
have to go, want to come with me?" Whoops, I have to go home now and
cook dinner and
The point here is she has already decided she wants to come home with you to have sex. But she doesn’t know that you know that. And, she absolutely cannot face this fact without a convenient excuse that she is actually going over there for something else and the sex is just spontaneous. Make no mistake, once you get her home, she’s the one who will likely be the aggressor, or will need very little prompting. If you get any resistance at all, it’s time to cut and run because you screwed something up, probably misjudging if she was a one percenter. A lot of women will show casual interest. But it’s the one percenter that will show focussed, intense interest. They are practically drooling.
After the first few times, it’s easy. The first few times are hard
because you screw things up and it’s hard to initiate things because you
don’t really think things work this way. Instead, you think all women
are judging you and rejecting you (and 99% of them are). Until you sleep
with a few, you don’t know that 1% is there for easy taking. I say the
same thing to all my guy friends. Try it out a little at a time. The
easiest part is scoping these women out. Go places and try the eye contact
bit. Don’t follow up on it. Just try it out and see for yourself what I
am talking about. After you are comfortable doing this for a few weeks,
try occasionally saying Hi to one of them. Nothing complicated. Just
Hi. You’ll be shocked at the result and soon, you’ll be doing the rest.
And for God’s sake, don’t give the time of day or anything else, not the
slightest bit of respect, not a shred of time or effort, to any woman
who isn’t one of these. A woman who isn’t sexually interested in you
should be totally beneath notice. No staring at her tits. No talking to
her. She’s invisible. Women are sweet as pie when they are in
acquisition mode (you being what they wish to acquire) but they are evil
incarnate every time else. Only extremely high probability babes
deserve even an ounce of your time. Everyone else is wasting it.Screw em.
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