“The moon had been observing the earth close-up longer than anyone. It
must have witnessed all of the phenomena occurring - and all of the acts
carried out - on this earth.
But the moon remained silent; it told no
stories. All it did was embrace the heavy past with a cool, measured
On the moon there was neither air nor wind. Its vacuum was
perfect for preserving memories unscathed. No one could unlock the heart
of the moon.
Aomame raised her glass to the moon and asked, “Have you
gone to bed with someone in your arms lately?”
The moon did not answer.
“Do you have any friends?” she asked.
The moon did not answer.
“Don’t you get tired of always playing it cool?”
The moon did not answer."
-- Haruki Murakami, 1Q84
Chapter One: Introduction
Part 1: Dating Advice from a Father
Part 2: Women, Teasing, Tests, One-itis and Hope
Part 3: Understanding Women and 'The Rules' for Men
Part 4: Bad Boys, Alphas, Assholes, Niceguys and Players
Chapter Two: The Dance
Part 1: Online Dating - Not!
Part 2: Finding the Small Pool of Interested Women
Part 3: The Sexes Approaching Each Other (Eye Contact, Escalating)
Part 4: There Really Are Only Two Safe Subjects to Talk About with Women
Part 5: Be a Lover, Not a Provider (Dates & Gifts)
Part 6: Most Women Don't Want a Man Who Isn't Choosy
Part 7: You Mean Nothing to a Woman Until You've Had Sex
Part 8: That First Date at Your Place
Chapter Three: Mental Frame
Part 1: Choose Confidence
Part 2: Women Are Not Able to Get Sex On Demand
Part 3: Women as "Friends"
Part 4: Relationship Phases
Part 5: Don't Argue with Women; Have Power & Choices
Part 6: No Woman is "Out of Your League"
Part 7: Raising Your Sexual Status
Part 8: Women Who Want to Cheat with You
Part 9: NAWALT, Pre-Nups, Celibacy & Other Types of Bad Advice
Part 10: Why You Must Never Give a Woman Any Money
Chapter Four: Her Mental Health
Part 1: Women are Sick!
Part 2: Living in La-La-Land
Part 3: Just Say "No" to Divorced Women and Single Moms
Part 4: Breaking Up is About Drama; Passive Aggression & the Female Orgasm
Part 5: Abusive Behaviour (DV, Stalkers, Sarcasm & Shaming Language)
Part 6: Women Choosing Losers
Part 7: Women Have Contradictory Love
Part 8: Rape Fantasies, Religious Women and Projection
Part 9: Fat Bottomed Girls
Part 10: Four Kinds of Women which are More Psycho than Others
Chapter Five: Culture Matters
Part 1: Local versus Foreign Women
Part 2: Humanity Transmitted Through Generations (The Bible, Fatherlessness)
Part 3: Ritalin and Abusive Schools
Part 4: Women in Power
Part 5: Prostitution
Part 6: The Most Feminacentrist Statement of the 20th Century
Part 7: Feminism Turns Women into Mere Sex Objects (Advice to Women)
Part 8: Women Should Cultivate Anything That is a Virtue (Advice to Women)
Part 9: Boycott Those Who Disrespect Men
Part 10: Lesbians and Gay Men
Part 11: Pushing the Limits of Sexual Fantasies