Monday 9 March 2015

Principles of Seduction

“The moon had been observing the earth close-up longer than anyone. It must have witnessed all of the phenomena occurring - and all of the acts carried out - on this earth. 

But the moon remained silent; it told no stories. All it did was embrace the heavy past with a cool, measured detachment. 

On the moon there was neither air nor wind. Its vacuum was perfect for preserving memories unscathed. No one could unlock the heart of the moon. 

Aomame raised her glass to the moon and asked, “Have you gone to bed with someone in your arms lately?” 

The moon did not answer. 

“Do you have any friends?” she asked. 

The moon did not answer. 

“Don’t you get tired of always playing it cool?”

The moon did not answer."

-- Haruki Murakami, 1Q84
Chapter One: Introduction 
Part 1: Dating Advice from a Father 
Part 2: Women, Teasing, Tests, One-itis and Hope
Part 3: Understanding Women and 'The Rules' for Men
Part 4: Bad Boys, Alphas, Assholes, Niceguys and Players 
Chapter Two: The Dance
Part 1: Online Dating - Not!
Part 2: Finding the Small Pool of Interested Women
Part 3: The Sexes Approaching Each Other (Eye Contact, Escalating)
Part 4: There Really Are Only Two Safe Subjects to Talk About with Women 
Part 5: Be a Lover, Not a Provider (Dates & Gifts)
Part 6: Most Women Don't Want a Man Who Isn't Choosy
Part 7: You Mean Nothing to a Woman Until You've Had Sex 
Part 8: That First Date at Your Place
Chapter Three: Mental Frame
Part 1: Choose Confidence
Part 2: Women Are Not Able to Get Sex On Demand
Part 3: Women as "Friends" 
Part 4: Relationship Phases
Part 5: Don't Argue with Women; Have Power & Choices
Part 6: No Woman is "Out of Your League"
Part 7: Raising Your Sexual Status
Part 8: Women Who Want to Cheat with You
Part 9: NAWALT, Pre-Nups, Celibacy & Other Types of Bad Advice
Part 10: Why You Must Never Give a Woman Any Money
Chapter Four: Her Mental Health
Part 1: Women are Sick! 
Part 2: Living in La-La-Land
Part 3: Just Say "No" to Divorced Women and Single Moms 
Part 4: Breaking Up is About Drama; Passive Aggression & the Female Orgasm
Part 5: Abusive Behaviour (DV, Stalkers, Sarcasm & Shaming Language)
Part 6: Women Choosing Losers
Part 7: Women Have Contradictory Love 
Part 8: Rape Fantasies, Religious Women and Projection
Part 9: Fat Bottomed Girls 
Part 10: Four Kinds of Women which are More Psycho than Others 
Chapter Five: Culture Matters
Part 1: Local versus Foreign Women
Part 2: Humanity Transmitted Through Generations (The Bible, Fatherlessness)
Part 3: Ritalin and Abusive Schools 
Part 4: Women in Power
Part 5: Prostitution
Part 6: The Most Feminacentrist Statement of the 20th Century
Part 7: Feminism Turns Women into Mere Sex Objects (Advice to Women)
Part 8: Women Should Cultivate Anything That is a Virtue (Advice to Women)
Part 9: Boycott Those Who Disrespect Men
Part 10: Lesbians and Gay Men
Part 11: Pushing the Limits of Sexual Fantasies