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A lot of the problems with American chicks is that a 4 (slightly below
average) thinks she is a 6 (slightly above average) who deserves an 8
(high quality). These women never get the 8. However, what they do is
randomly screw men who are anywhere from a 1 to a 6. Most of the time
they are stuck up, wanting that 8. But much like their eating, which
involves several days of strict control followed by a binge once or twice a week, they’d sleep with anybody.
All women are like this, beautiful, ugly, single, married, young, old.
Their status is mostly fixed. Most of the time they will only consider
that high end range of their status. But alot of the time they will grab
a random person from somewhere in a range around their status. Let’s
say she is a 6. Most of the time she won’t even glance at any guy who
isn’t a 10. But once or twice a month, she’d grab a 4. Once she has sex
with that 4, HE BECOMES ONE OF THE GUYS SHE’D HAVE SEX WITH AT ANY TIME.
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If you’re a 5 (ie most guys), you either need to limit yourself
initially to women who you are a 10 for OR you need to improve your
timing and be able to tell when women are in slut mode. Learn where
women go when they are about to binge. Learn the behaviors they exhibit
so you can first identify them and then exploit them.
Here’s the interesting part. A man’s status is not fixed for the most
part. He can climb up the ladder by the number and quality of the women
he is with. The average guy becomes a 10 when he is sleeping with 3 or 4
women 8 and above.
Since this is the game women actually play (as opposed to the
love/marriage/commitment they lie that they actually want), men should
become good at it and play to win.
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Sexual Status is Similar to Employment Status
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Sexual status for men is similar to being in the workforce. If you are
unemployed and you apply for a job, everyone assumes you are an
unemployable loser. But, if you go on exploratory interviews when you
already have a job and make it clear that you love your job and would
only consider being lured away for a 10% raise, etc. because you feel
you could handle more important responsibilities, everyone wants to hire
you. If you aren’t getting any, you give off defeated loser vibes and
women look at you and assume the reason you have no lover is because you
aren’t good enough for one. But as soon as you get one, all the girls
just one step above her status-wise want to lure you away. The more
women you have at one time, the more valuable you are.
The important thing is what you do after you get the first one. You need
to immediately use that status to get another woman (to prevent the
first ones leaving from being as leverage against you or becoming
“unemployed” again). Then another, and probably one more just to be safe
(each one is easier than the last, as long as they are all of the same
status). Then you can start working on higher status chicks (younger,
sexier/prettier, better personality, educated, wealthy etc.). You climb
up the ladder this way. Keeping more than one prevents you from being
pushed down the ladder. Any time you allow a woman to become monogamous
you get pushed down a few rungs and held in place. You can only go down
from there (and she will continuously try to push you down). That’s a
big difference between men and women. Men always try to push their women
up the ladder and make them and their lives better. Women want to push
you down the ladder so they feel justified/safe to degrade you. Don’t
let them do this.
The best solution to this problem is to enter a social situation where
there are lots and lots of single women who are looking immediately to
get a boyfriend. The number one place for that is college. Four year,
resident living, slacker colleges (state colleges all the way up to big
ten) are best for this. Every fall the freshmen show up and want a
boyfriend within a couple of days. Better quality schools, especially
engineering schools, aren’t very good because the women who go there are
either dykes or neurotic freaks that care only about their GPA.
Community colleges are good but only if you go during the day.
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The Moment You Ask a Woman for Something, Your Value Plummets
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I will go so far as to say you cannot ask a woman out (or for anything
else, for that matter). The very minute you ask for something, anything,
your value plummets. It has nothing to do with you and everything to do
with the fact that the woman is insane. The incredible irony of this
is, the woman was probably interested in you, if she’s hanging out with
you, but the moment you show interest or ask for something, or try to
impress her, you become worthless in her eyes.
This is why it is so important that your initial approach is oblique,
feigning disinterest and focussing on attracting her rather than
pursuing her. It’s also why you should never, EVER approach a woman who
doesn’t show clear signs of interest. And, you are probably wasting your
time with anyone but one percenters (the 1% of women who will show
strong signs of interest if you elicit them). Identifying the right
woman is far more important than the approach (although the wrong
approach will also lead to failure).
It sucks. But what can you do.
Women are nuts.
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Gaining Status
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The way you get power with women is to get one, and then you have
slightly more power with women than you had before. Where most men fuck
up is they immediately stop trying to be with any woman except who they
are already with. This is a normal and natural thing to do. You are
SUPPOSED to seek a deeper relationship and foster love between you. But
women just aren’t interested in that and actually disrespect any man who
follows that strategy with women. What you should do is keep on looking
for women and use the extra oomph you have from already being involved
to more easily get a second. This gives you even more power with women
so you can get a third. Now, it’s time to use that extra power to get
rid of the ugliest one and replace her with a higher status woman. In
general, women who are married are the lowest status as are fat women
(i.e. they make a good starting point). Older women have lower status
than younger ones. Richer girls are more status than poor, uneducated
ones. And everyone knows that pretty girls and sexy girls (not necessary
the same thing) have the highest status of all.
The only way to have power with women is to start at the bottom and work
your way up. But, somewhere along the way (usually, right at the
beginning) the women will try to derail you and get you to be exclusive
with them. They rightly point out that it is the normal thing for men
and women to do. Unfortunately, they have no intention of doing their
part and your status drops dramatically if you take the bait. Simply say
no and continue what you are doing. They will try to force you by
walking out the door. Let them.
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One of the Most Important Reasons to Have More than One Woman at Once
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One of the most important reasons to have more than one woman at once.
Because this phenomenon also works in reverse. If a woman sees you with another woman, it does two things. It provides "social proof"
that you are attractive. Amazingly, for many, if not most women, it
doesn’t matter if you meet THEIR standard for attractiveness, at all.
What matters is that other women want you…..that makes you attractive.
The other thing is does is it makes women compete over you. They look at
dating as a zero sum game. If another woman has you, then there are
less men for her.
The end result is that, if you are sleeping around with a lot of women
and the women around you know this, they will want to sleep with you
too. This issue is FAR stronger than what you look like, how you act, or
what you have.
Have I mentioned lately that
women are insane?
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Social Proofing Has Negative Survival Value
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QUOTE: "Women seem to need a lot of consensual validation from other women."
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This is one of the things that really pisses me off about women. NONE of
the things that make me a desirable man (money, looks, body,
personality etc.) that I work on, mean a damn thing to them. In fact,
many of these things are a detriment, as they chase after omega male
(scumbag) traits. But, social proofing….THAT matters. I got news for
them. Social proofing pretty much means I can’t or simply won’t give
them what they want. Social proofing means one of three things. I’m not
going to commit, under typical circumstances (me). I’m taken, so you
have no chance with me (typical married guy). Or, worst of all, I’m
taken and I’m the type of lying, cheating, scum who will do it with
someone behind my wife’s back (ie poor character). Social proofing has
negative survival value for women. It’s neurotic and unnatural.
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You Might as Well Be an Unemployed Loser Living in a Van Down by the River
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You haven’t lived until you’ve given a woman hours and hours of
continuous orgasmic joy, with the body you’ve spent hours and hours,
making hard in the gym, only to have her dump you for some unemployed,
drug addict loser who can’t get it up because crack has made him
impotent.
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There is no point. You would think that being virile, studly and
dominant would get you respect and preference from a woman. It doesn’t.
You might as well be a fat lump on the couch that burps. You’ll get the
same amount of women (sad, but true) who will be just as loyal and
attentive (i.e. not at all) as they would if you expended effort. Same
thing with money. Sure, a lot of women are looking for a rich man to
feed off of. But success doesn’t garner you respect or preference from
women. You might as well be an unemployed loser living in a van down by
the river. It just doesn’t matter.
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Don't Date Women
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The problem with "dating" is that you are spending time and effort to
impress and keep them. Firstly, that’s a pain in the ass. It
yields meagre rewards for lots of effort. Second, it doesn’t work.
They WILL leave.
Also, the rewards will be great in the beginning and get crappier as
time goes on. Why not get rid of her? Seriously, you shouldn’t be seeing
any one woman more than once every couple of weeks or once a month. She
will ask for more. Your answer to this (and almost everything any
woman, except your mom, asks of you)
is no. If
she wanders off, oh well. She was going to do that anyway. Ironically,
she stays LONGER if you are unavailable. Don’t talk to her on the phone
(30 secs = whoops, gotta run, I’m busy). Don’t call her until it is time
for her to come over. Hell, don’t talk to her much at all except to
tell her to do things. If she says no, dump her. Women only start to say
no when they are ready to leave and nothing changes their mind.
The point here is you should be spending almost no energy on any one
woman and instead should be focussed on screening the general population
for new ones. Women are not sincere and they don’t care even a little
bit about you, no matter what you do (although they will pretend
otherwise to get something from you). Plus, they are near random in
whether they will suck your cock or not 5 minutes after you meet them.
The implications for this are immense. You should expend nearly no
effort on any woman. Testing for who you will approach is, will she suck
your cock….now!
Everything else is a lie.……because
they have gone out of their way to make it a lie. Of course, don’t tell
them that. NEVER tell them that. They will constantly ask you why about
different things. The reason you give them should always be some
version of, I’m busy or I don’t want to or
just NO!
They will inevitably give you the ultimatum (spend more time with me or
I’m gone). Realize that she already IS gone and is just trying to find
out if you will let her torture you or not during her last days. Your
answer must always be…..bye bye.
As incredible as it may sound, if you are an emotionally (often
physically) unavailable bastard out solely for your own benefit without
even a casual regard for her wants and needs, all of her friends will
want to fuck you too.
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Some Q & A
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QUOTE: I have some questions.
1. What behaviours did they exhibit?
2. If you don’t want to be soley with one woman, do the women know
about each other/are they OK with this? I always wanted monogamy
because I thought it was the hallmark of a serious relationship, not for
power.
3. Does this example mean a person doesn’t love you? I wasn’t trying
to test him, but you commute to school while dating someone. You don’t
have a car at the time and the person thinks you should. But you just
borrow your parents’ car because it is easier on you. One day, their car
doesn’t start and you call and ask your significat other for a ride to
class. The answer is “I wanted you to get your own car, therefore I
ain’t taking you nowhere.” Does this mean they don’t care? Is this a
test?
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1. This is a tough one because there are so many and they are so varied.
They range anywhere from simple flakiness and disrespect of my time
(showing up late or not at all) to cutting me down in front of people in
public. The first gets you a warning and a stern lecture. The second
gets your number erased from my speed dial. There is a basic pattern of
escalation. When I lived for 10 years with my fiancé (who later
abandoned me in a rather fucked up way….but that’s another story), the
behaviours were incredibly extreme and downright bizarre. Then there is
the other side of the coin….indifference. The person no longer seems
excited to spend time together and doesn’t put any effort into anything.
Eventually they wander off and stop calling. Some women have to be
dumped for the former. But, most women simply do the latter. They start
hot and heavy and then fizzle out. The way I do things, this is not a
big deal. But, these same women often pressure me for a monogamous
relationship. I’m like, if you can’t maintain interest for 6 months,
what makes you think I want to be moving in with you? Also, most women
will gab endlessly in narcissistic fashion about the most inane things.
Rarely have I been with a woman that bothered to find out much about me
in depth. My experience is most women behave themselves and are fun to
be around, if you keep them on a short leash. But, if you let them cut
you off from “competition” they very quickly become lazy and
presumptuous. One thing I have never met any woman who does, is start
working together to build a life with her man. I’d love to meet a woman
like this. But, I doubt she exists. The types of behaviours I would
expect from a woman like this range from the simple getting to know my
personality in depth to the complex, starting money making ventures
together to support the kids we plan to have. To be blunt, I rarely meet
a woman who is sincere, down to earth and makes good decisions, let
alone sending that my way. Most are completely involved in airy fairy
nonsense, many to the point of being self-destructive and chasing after
sensual pleasures. That’s great in limited quantities. But it’s hardly
something to build a life together with.
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2. This may come as some surprise to you but most women are more
attracted to a man who won’t be monogamous with them than to one who
will (and they wonder why I choose the former). If you ask a woman, hey,
would you date a man who was seeing other women? Most would say, "Of
course not." But, that’s not true. my value as a man goes up, not down,
if I “date around”. There are a few things though. You can’t lie….and
you can’t burst their bubble. When a woman directly asks, "Are you
dating other people?", the answer is yes. When she asks where were you
Saturday night, the answer is, "None of your business." But, you don’t
leave other women’s underwear hanging around your bedroom either. When a
woman asks, "Are you single?", the answer is yes (unless you are
married and that’s a whole other thing) Also, most women “date around”.
They are seeing more than one man (none tell you this, BTW) and they
don’t respect a man who isn’t seeing more than one woman. What they want
to do though, is separate you from the other women. Not a problem,
except once they have you, they don’t want you anymore! Every time I let
a woman become “serious”, she wanders off. Not right away mind you.
Instead she leads me on and suddenly changes her mind at a later date.
My point here is, the whole thing of a woman looking for a decent man to
have a monogamous relationship with, is just a big myth. Either they
want to bag you, but have no intention of doing their part in the
relationship and, quite frankly, disrespect you for being willing to be
bagged….or they WANT you to be the type of man who dates around. Even
the women whose self-esteem is so low that they are rarely with a man do
this. This is the way things are. I didn’t choose it (quite frankly, I
don’t like it). And the way things are is very different than the way
they say things are.
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3. That’s a person who is being an asshole. The hallmark of the asshole
is unreasonableness. They expect you to rearrange your life and deal
with a huge imposition so that you can indulge a minor whim of theirs.
Or (as in this case) they are very controlling. They want you to solve a
problem you have, their way, rather than your way. If you refuse and do
what any assertive, self-determined person would do (choosing your own
way to deal with something) and it doesn’t work, they dump a hefty
amount of blame on you and even try to punish you in an aggressive or
passive-aggressive fashion. The point of what they do is NOT to make
things come out right (mostly what they want you to do doesn’t work
anyway, lol), but that you do what THEY want. I would say that, no, the
way that person is behaving is not what you would see in someone who
loves you. There are two things you see in the behavior of someone who
loves you. The first is their behavior encourages you to grow and become
self-sufficient. The second is they are willing to give up things that
don’t really matter to them, so that you can have something that really
matters or is important to you. If you have an emergency, they turn off
the tube, get their ass off the couch and help you. They also don’t try
to make you feel stupid for having the emergency. However they also
don’t let you make it a habit of manufacturing emergencies on a regular
basis.
Someone who loves you would SUGGEST getting your own car. When you chose
to do something else, they would support your right to make that
decision. If it didn’t work, they would help you. They neither carry you
through life nor let you fall off the cliff from a single bad decision.
Someone who did that to me wouldn’t even get the benefit of a phone
call to let them know they’ve been dumped.
There is one exception to that. When a person consistently makes
decisions that are deviant and way outside the realm of
reasonableness….you confront them about it. For example, drug use.
Another example, I had an old girlfriend of mine who was whoring around
behind her fiancé’s back with guys who had been in jail. I told her that
was inappropriate and likely to result in ruining her life. She told me
to fuck off…..so I did. I haven’t spoken to her since.
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